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The Terrifying Power of ‘Love’ – the Pressure Aromantic People Face
Existing and Defying Stereotypes as an A-spec Disabled Person
Making space for aces at Pride
Stories from our team
Introducing Aces & Aros
4 Ways to Promote Positive Asexual Media Representation
Why I Find BoJack Horseman’s Depiction of Asexuality Deeply Relatable
'BoJack Horseman' depicts the unique ways in which marginalized people are forced to contend with a world that often doesn’t feel designed for us.
3 people explain what it's really like to be aromantic
Aromantic, or 'aro' people experience sexual and romantic attraction differently. Here's what it's like to be LGBTQ+ and aromantic.
Bay Area asexuals organize to build supportive community
Starting with internet forums and social media, Bay Area asexuals have built a community where they can dispel misconceptions about their sexual orientation and support one another.
Ace and Aro Hospitality Suite is Official at Creating Change 2019
On May 25th, 2017, thirteen asexual activists sent an email petition to Andy Garcia, the Creating Change 2019 conference director,…
Asexual People Can Be Sexually Assaulted Too
Some asexual people say they've been pressured into sex, or assaulted or raped by people trying to "correct" their identities — and afterward, they still aren't believed.
Creating Ace Space in the Media
We should not be bombarded with messaging that tells us that we are missing a prerequisite to fulfillment and life satisfaction, and that there is something defunct within us.
What It's Actually Like To Come Out As Asexual | MTV UK
Writer Amelia Ace shares her experience...
Asexual Disabled People Exist, But Don't Make Assumptions About Us - Rooted in Rights
“How do you have sex?” “Are you even interested in dating?” “Do you have any feeling ‘down there’?” These are…
The Tumblr bloggers building a canon of asexual history
Academics have long ignored the history of asexuality, so online communities are stepping in.
So What Does Good Asexual and Aromantic Representation Look Like?
It is far from just showing a perpetually single character.
We Asked Asexuals About Their Relationship to Pride
After some controversy over “ace” and “poly” inclusion, they told us what queer identity means to them.
3 YA Writers Tell Us Why They Wrote Books With Asexual Protagonists
As soon as the calendar pages swish to June, it feels like a collective voice erupts, shouting, "It's PRIDE, baby!" For those who identify as the "A" of the LGBTQA spectrum — A for "asexual" and "aromantic" — there is an extreme lack of visibility…
Marriage at Ferndale Pride Boosts Visibility of Asexual Community
The couple’s marriage at the event’s main stage fittingly kickstarted the 2018 festival with a message of love and support
The Political Provocations of Asexuality | JSTOR Daily
When forms of female sexual expression are seen as either advancing or harming a larger political project, this immediately casts asexuality in a bad light.
Asexuality is still hugely misunderstood. TV is slowly changing that.
TV is gradually making room for more asexual characters — but few shows are up to the challenge.
The Ace Flag: A History and Celebration
The ace flag, along with its purple/white/gray/black color scheme, has been the most successful ace symbol in all of history.…
Why It's Not OK That Marginalized Characters Are Almost Never Single In Literature
When was the last time you read a book with an LGBTQIA+ protagonist whose identity wasn’t defined by their romantic…
Online dating isn’t easy — especially when you’re asexual
The struggle to find a match when you’re looking for romance, but not necessarily sex First dates, by and large,…
I'm Aromantic and Asexual — And I Love Valentine's Day
Lauren Jernigan writes on how Valentine's Day helped her come to terms with her aromanticism and asexuality.
SFU becomes first university to offer asexuality studies
The course explored and questioned the central role sex plays in society
Examining the Whiteness of the Ace Community
Although ace visibility is changing, whiteness still dominates the community.
NYC Local Law Amends Definition of Sexual Orientation and Gender
New definition takes broader view and offers more nuanced definition that recognizes a spectrum of sexual orientations, including asexuality and pansexuality
Asexual Authors Speak Out About Representation In Fiction
For a long time, I believed Lai — the main character in my debut YA fantasy novella, Keeper of the Dawn — had no interest in romance. She was too focused on trying to build a life that matched her…
Why We Need More Positive Representations Of Asexual Characters On Television
Many of the few asexual-coded characters in mainstream media have been depicted as outcasts or social deviants — and fans hope that Jughead on Riverdale could change that.
‘BoJack Horseman’ Gives Us TV’s First Out-and-Proud Asexual Icon
The fourth season of BoJack Horseman makes history with Todd Chavez, one of the first out-and-proud asexual characters on television.
The truth about identifying as asexual in the Midwest
Kayla Fields was the school prude of Bedford North Lawrence High School. She dated a handful of boys who pursued her, but the relationships never lasted more than a week. It wasn’t that she didn’t…
‘Special Snowflake’ My Ass: Why Identity Labels Matter
So when, after scrolling on Facebook for entirely too long the other day, I saw an article on graysexuality, I happily clicked the link. (Graysexuality is an asexual-spectrum orientation that…
Riverdale’s Jughead is no longer asexual, and that’s a problem for fans
The community speaks out
‘There’s someone else just like you’: inside India’s asexuality networks
When Naqshpa* was a teenager, her friends swooned over Hrithik Roshan’s toned muscles and papered their walls with posters of Rahul Dravid. Meanwhile, they called Naqshpa a ‘kid’ because she didn’t…
7 Tips for Coming Out as Ace
For the first time, I had shared an identity that deeply resonated with me and it felt like a first step toward being open and honest about myself.
How the internet created the asexual movement
Elena ScottiA decade ago, when Bauer was a high school junior, she felt left out as all of her friends became…
Study on Trans Discrimination Explores Trans Aces
A recently released analysis of the National Transgender Discrimination Survey has shed some much needed light on the experiences of trans and gender non-conforming asexual spectrum individuals.
Reporting Back from Creating Change
January 20th – 24th marked the 29th annual Creating Change, a national conference for LGBTQ+ leaders, activists, and organizers across the United States
The Battle For LGBT Inclusion
This is the fifth part of a six-part series on asexuality, in which we explore the history of the asexual movement, uncover current research on asexuality, debunk common misconceptions and discuss the...